Li, S., Zheng, C., Schroeder, J., (2026). The Pain of Ghosting? People Underestimate How Bad Their Conversation Partners Feel About Not Responding. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin
Short Summary: Across three studies — recalled real ghosting experiences (N=195), imagined scenarios (N=601), and an induced live interaction (N=350) — this paper finds that people who ghost others feel worse about it than the people they ghost realize. This underestimation is larger when the ghosting is unintentional, and is reduced when the ghoster sends a brief acknowledgment (e.g., "sorry, can't talk") instead of going silent.